February 2011
231 posts
“As nations evacuate their citizens from the violence gripping Libya, many...”
– African migrants targeted in Libya - Africa - Al Jazeera English (via dominickbrady)
Feb 28th
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Is it wrong to derive pleasure from my name change...
Thanks for at least trying to get my pronouns right…
Feb 28th
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Don't run to catch the train in wedges
Twisted foot. Ouch.
Feb 28th
Feb 28th
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Feb 28th
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Feb 27th
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Feb 27th
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silverfuck asked: It's not inherently binarist, but I don't trust a lot of the research being done not to be directed by people with binarist ideas. What I meant by mentioning people whose gender hasn't always been the same was: what changes? Considering that you agree with the OP of the PDD (that brains have a gender), do you then believe that the brain changes?

And you said there was...
Feb 27th
genderbitch asked: I can't remember if James Bellringer's work in the UK treating agender/neutrois trans folks was used to create data for research on nonbinary trans folk at all. That would've been a smart idea to do that though. :o
Feb 27th
aaronitron asked: Yeah to claim that "gender identity" being synonymous with "sex identity" since 1966 is simplistic. Different researchers use different semantics to express what they're talking about. People still use "sex identity" as being distinct from "gender identity." In the research looking at gender identity, e.g., one's feeling as butch/femme/other it is...
Feb 27th
silverfuck asked: "There’s absolutely research definitively showing that gender identity is biological and innate."

Really? I'm not asking to be a douche, I've just never come across any research that most positively proves that gender identity is biological and innate. And... where does that leave gender-fluid people? Polygender people? Non-binary people? People who now...
Feb 27th
my friends are always like
perrytheplatypusssy: HOW CAN YOU BE GAY? BOYS ARE SO HOT?! and im like ew i hate penises though.   Hating penises doesn’t make you a lesbian. And you’re not a lesbian if you’re also into non-binary-female-identified FAAB people. Trans women can be lesbians too.
Feb 27th
aaronitron asked: No, that research does not exist and it does not even make any sense. Sex is biologically based, yes. You have you manifested sex (what is physical such as genitalia, chromosomal makeup, hormones, gonads, etc.) and you have sex identity, which have clear implications to brain biology (a lot to do with hormones during in-vitro development).

Gender, on the other hand, has little, if...
Feb 27th
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Feb 27th
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So I've been reading way to many fucked up post on...
feministslut: They all pretty much go like “well I like this culture, we live in a global society so people should expect us to share cultures. Stop being so fucking sensitive” or my personal favorite “my culture is boring/white people don’t have culture so I found a culture I like. I appreciate it, stop whining.” The main theme among these post, minus being fucking ignorant, is that it is...
Feb 26th
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Feb 26th
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unnomjuste asked: I responded to your post about when to disclose to a potential partner and I don't think there was enough space for me to be clear about what I meant. I think it's important to disclose as early as is reasonable to avoid the "why didn't you tell me sooner!?" questions (that happened to me in my last relationship) and potential surprise. People can do nasty things when...
Feb 26th
reblog if you want your followers to know that...
transensation: ask me anything boys, girls and other various individuals.
Feb 26th
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Clubbing: When To Disclose?
My friends and I went out to the club tonight (Boston area - Jamaica Plain - Milky Way / Bella Luna - Dyke Night - woot!). I’ve decided that I need to end my 12-year relationship: we’ve just grown apart, and it’s for the best. We’ve broken up and gotten back together a whole bunch of times now, and each time, it’s been the guilt pulling me back in. Anyways,...
Feb 26th
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Can I tell you a secret? Sometimes when I'm...
GPOY
Feb 26th
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Women are going to have abortions whether they're...
stfuconservatives: Seriously. Making abortion illegal, or expensive, or hard to get won’t stop women (and other uterus-bearers) from having them. Abortion will never stop happening. It can be prevented with education and birth control, but there will never be a 0.0% abortion rate. Sorry, but that’s the truth. Unintended pregnancies happen. We need to keep abortion safe, legal and available to...
Feb 26th
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Feb 25th
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“A three-day-old human embryo is a collection of 150 cells called a blastocyst....”
– Sam Harris, on stem cell research (via loveyourchaos) Emphasis mine. (via yesmeansyes)
Feb 25th
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Feb 25th
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Insurance Company Ignores Lesbian Couple Who Had... →
Imagine going away for a nice getaway to celebrate your anniversary, only to return home and find that your dream house had been burned down by an arsonist, and that the word “QUEERS” had been spray-painted on your garage. That was the reality that Carol Ann and Laura Stutte faced several months ago, when they returned to their Tennessee home only to find that it had been burned down, with...
Feb 25th
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anarchoqueer: Read More You know in your heart what’s right. We’re here for you.
Feb 25th
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elvanui asked: s~
Feb 25th
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see-reverse-side asked: G
Feb 25th
spaceykate asked: א
Feb 25th
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endlessexcuses asked: D
Feb 25th
numol asked: a

alternately:

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Feb 25th
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elvanui asked: Q
Feb 25th
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Post a single letter in my ask box and I will free...
So bored…
Feb 25th
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accordingtosami: alexholzbach: But just because he can eloquently defend his position doesn’t make him any better of a person than someone who makes women in the kitchen jokes. If anything, it makes him worse. Because he’s not just ignorant or low-brow. He’s fully aware of the societal implications of the current differences between men and women, and just chooses to ignore them to better fit...
Feb 24th
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Feb 24th
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Olympia: Beware of rapist Andrew Oak
lucypaw: genderbitch: constantrage: Someone named Andrew Oak is moving from Michigan to Olympia soon. Andrew Oak is a rapist. He has been accused by multiple people of rape. He is likely to attempt to integrate himself into the radical/queer community here. Spread the word, I don’t want rapists in my community. Reblog the shit out of this, please. D: I know people near Olympia.  D: Be...
Feb 24th
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Feb 24th
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amaevis: Fuck the spoons. Hand me the forks. →
everyonesalittlequeer: thesadnessofpencils: You have a 1 in 1000 chance of being attacked by someone who does not have an invisible disability. You have a 1 in 20,000 chance of being physically assaulted by someone with an invisible disability. When you use psychophobic language to refer to a neurotypical, or… I was just trying to explain this to my dad the other day but he tried to turn it...
Feb 23rd
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anellaluciax: People who hate that they didn't... →
everyonesalittlequeer: amaevis: everyonesalittlequeer: stfuantichoicers: Submitted by procrastinationtactics: http://www.mybiggestregretever.com/post/3435413122/killing-my-innocent-baby Things like this make me want to rip my hair out. First that she didn’t know the options that were available to her (probably due to a lack of… Dear female 15 year old, What if you didn’t get the...
Feb 23rd
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anellaluciax: People who hate that they didn't... →
everyonesalittlequeer: stfuantichoicers: Submitted by procrastinationtactics: http://www.mybiggestregretever.com/post/3435413122/killing-my-innocent-baby Things like this make me want to rip my hair out. First that she didn’t know the options that were available to her (probably due to a lack of… Dear female 15 year old, What if you didn’t get the abortion? You don’t want uterus...
Feb 23rd
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numol asked: fwiw i think you're pretty awesome. i'm sorry you're feeling bad. <3
Feb 23rd
Fuck the spoons. Hand me the forks.
thesadnessofpencils: You have a 1 in 1000 chance of being attacked by someone who does not have an invisible disability. You have a 1 in 20,000 chance of being physically assaulted by someone with an invisible disability.  When you use psychophobic language to refer to a neurotypical, or someone whose psychological status you are unaware of, this is ableist. You could disagree with them, they...
Feb 23rd
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Why Am I Such a Horrible Human Being?
Why?
Feb 23rd
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Feb 23rd
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Should I add The L Word to my...
whatfreshhellisthis: feministilicious: amaevis: feministilicious: whathunter: I dunno, lesbians aren’t really my thing and I know absolutely nothing about the show except that there are lesbians. But pretty much everyone I follow watches it, I guess. So. IDK Warning: It can be SUPER SUPER SUPER cissexist and ciscentric. Like majorly. Like okay, one of the characters is a trans...
Feb 23rd
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Should I add The L Word to my...
feministilicious: amaevis: feministilicious: whathunter: I dunno, lesbians aren’t really my thing and I know absolutely nothing about the show except that there are lesbians. But pretty much everyone I follow watches it, I guess. So. IDK Warning: It can be SUPER SUPER SUPER cissexist and ciscentric. Like majorly. Like okay, one of the characters is a trans man, but Jenny (his gf at...
Feb 23rd
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Should I add The L Word to my...
feministilicious: whathunter: I dunno, lesbians aren’t really my thing and I know absolutely nothing about the show except that there are lesbians. But pretty much everyone I follow watches it, I guess. So. IDK Warning: It can be SUPER SUPER SUPER cissexist and ciscentric. Like majorly. Like okay, one of the characters is a trans man, but Jenny (his gf at the time) goes about it like a...
Feb 23rd
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